The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
@hustlerbear81 thanks for that sir, I needed to hear it. lessons learned indeed. and what a good one with quite a few packed in.
regarding the hotel, what would've been an appropriate response then? surely had both our situations been flexible I would've noped out of that option.
Mistakes You Made
- Never date a co-worker.
- Being nice guy - paying for a hotel to have sex in, when you wanted to squash whatever tension there was from not meeting up at the hotel
- Worrying about her and putting the pussy on the pedestal
- Making yourself available - You were texting her asking her if she was available during the weekend, texting back and forth about coming to hot
- She was making you wait to have sex with her - which never happened
- You didn't hold your frame wether it was a shit test or not, you had a spat about being professional at work
Things to do
Kill that inner nice guy - i don't mean being a dick to every women you meet, but be selfish, you are important, don't drop everything to please everyone to think that you are going to get a reward out of your nice behavior.
Have a strong frame - It's hard to keep your emotions in check because everyday we get tested wether it is personal, wealth, or job related, you are not going to win by flipping out and getting angry. Look at them as lessons, not as struggles, you are build a callus around your emotions, so that when things happen that normal you would get angry, to you it would i don't give a fuck and i can handle this.
There are plenty of women out there that are attractive and single and they do not work where you are, so look out there and find them. If some woman turns you down, it will not phase you because you will be emotional strong and move on to the next.
- Don't be available for anyone - Do not have women stealing your time. Have women guessing, let these women know that you have options and this will peak there interest because they want what they can not have.
what's up everyone. I'm new to this, only had my eyes opened a few months ago and I'm really confused. this is a bit of a lengthy read so heads up.
so, i met this girl at work about a year ago. our jobs are such that we only really get to see each other and talk during certain periods of a day, if at all. and it is usually short bursts. relationships of any kind at our job is a huge No no. we've chatted here and there nothing really major until recently (coincidentally, around when i started becoming aware of trp). to me, this girl was just a chick i would be happy to fuck and didnt put any real action to it since she is 15 years younger than me. but i think maybe she noticed a change in my demeanor or me embracing my male role, combination, whatever it was but the little chats got more straight up flirty. so i asked her out and she had actually said yea, with no hesitation. we meet up one day shorlty after, presumably to fuck (which i was right) and it was a complete disaster. i tried to set up another "date" with her, but she has a kid and supposedly hardly any time but I did get a "maybe i can be free x day". (are most younger chicks in their late 20 like this?)
so the night before x day, i call her to see if she was going to be free and she tells me no she wont be. i said something like oh i see, some other time then, and she asked if i was mad. i told her that I wasn't and we hung up. we saw each other a few times at work, talked some, but she never texted me again until about a month later (idk if that was a shit test?) saying she had an idea. i wait a bit to respond and ask her what, and she calls me. she tells me she wants to try this again, and that her idea is crazy. i asked what it entailed and she tells me ... that since she works super early, the only real time she has free is before work, like at 4am. so if i was interested, i could get a room, she could uber from her house, we could meet up and fuck and ill take her to work after. its rough for me to pull this off especially at 4am but im like fuck it, and agree. over the next few days its a few real sexy text messages about her wanting me and i respond equally sexual and then the day comes.
about an hour before i leave work she sent me a text asking if we were still on. i waited a bit and told her hell yea. later that evening she text me to remind me to send her the room info and i sent it a while later while she was asleep.
i got to the hotel and waited about 30 minutes or so for her to get up and she text me saying the hotel wasn't all that close to her, i asked her how far it was and about 20 min later she replied she was going to be running late. i responded to let me know when she was getting close so i could let her in the property. again like 30 min later she responds that she wasnt even ready yet. i told her alright, that i was just going to be leaving shortly then and she never responded. about 30 min later i left, rather bitter having spent the money and my time, plus it's been years since I been stood up.
she called me a few hours later, but i had ignored her call. the next day i sent her a text asking why she stood me up. she responded that it wasnt how she wanted things to go at all. i responded that it took a bit for me to be there and i didnt really apprecaite her wasting my time like that. she responded that she could tell me what happened but it wouldnt change anything and that she was sorry and she understood if i didnt want to talk to her anymore. my response was along the lines of "if youre interested in fucking me and showing up, then yea sure i would be. otherwise no hard feelings and i would see her around."
i left on a 9 day business trip and didnt hear from her or see her at work until 2 weeks later. and when we see saw me she simply said hi and kept walking, but it felt cold. when we were finally in a position to speak a bit more and after a few minutes of a kind of awkward silence, i was looking at her and she said what? you chose to keep things professional. (???when the fuck did i do that???) i told her no, that wasn't what I said nor what I wanted. but im not sure if she heard the end there, we work in a somewhat noisy environment. either way, a bit later that day i was walking back to my office and saw her and told her id like to just squash this. she told me there was nothing to squash. i said alright then and just walked away. saw her a few more times but we didnt say anything else to each other. now when we see each other it's just a hello and that's it. 2 weeks have gone by and still no texts or anything flirtatious or sexy.
so im really confused, is this a shit test? how do I pass it? im resolved to not give a fuck and let this hold me back, least of all around her and I do have other options I'm happy to explore. i would like to fuck her tho ain't even going to lie. should I just call her up and act like nothing? be straight up this is what I want? keep on ignoring? thanksRead More
Tate is a damaged child who's incredibly narcissistic.
He's ruined hundreds of peoples lives and then boast about it.
Saying "People want to kill me I'm a bad boi pimpin"
Nah, he's a scammer who hides in Romania, where you can buy out police so he can't get arrested.
Says he has all this money but can't refund a customer after a day.
Guys like these are why you have to be constantly edging the sword. AKA getting better.
Holy shit! she was married to a nice guy, and now fucking tate. Hypergamy doesnt care indeed
On average, a woman's ability to manipulate men tends to be vastly superior to a man's ability to manipulate women. More over, not only are her parents psychologists, so is she in her own right. Now, this isn't me implying in anyway that Emory Andrew Tate 3rd is being manipulated by Mikhailah Peterson, though he very likely is. I've simply looked into the publicly available information for their respective histories and this sort of pairing just strikes me as incredibly unlikely. I find it hard to believe two guys as tall and muscular as Emory Andrew Tate and his Brother Tristan are, could have such soft childish faces despite being in their thirties and no visible body hair.
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Bro (or sis, as the case may be). This is a Red Pill site. Are you really even slightly surprised at this photo? Come on, its so deeply entrenched at this point that we are beyond red and black pills - this is boring normal reality these days.
The red pill is a phase, as is the black pill. Radical Acceptance is the final form of a good man.
@unholyguacamole I never really read any of that pick up artist stuff, but goddamn, the pareto principle is real. I'm not even really trying to be a player, I'm looking for an LTR and really just hedging my bets because so many dates have turned out shitty because girls are liars sometimes. But holy crap lads, get some muscles, take some decent pics, write a good bio and prompts and you too can be chad thundercock, even if you are a manlet like me. I had to stop sending likes and swipes out because I'm getting a bit overwhelmed now. I don't do any of those PUA things though, I don't think, I might be doing some of them.. idk. I went out with a 8.5-9 just yesterday, seeing her tomorrow but that one is leaving to work out of state in not too long so it's a short term thing but I'm still going to enjoy it, got an 8 that I'm gonna meet the next day and I have another 9 well on the line. I sort of accidentally made a Freudian sext and she loved it haha she just gave me the lets get together soon signal today :) I also have another 7 that I think I might have to ghost unfortunately and 2 more 8s on deck just in case, possibly 4 but I think I fucked up with the first 2 by seeming too simp like which really sucks because one is a redhead. Been 3 days with no responses, but no unmatching either so idk. Holy shit lads, just get in really good shape, it's well worth spending a few hours in the gym a week. That alone wont get you the interest of high tier women, you have to know how to talk and act too, but what it will do is let you play on easy mode. Still on a quest for a new LTR but I am enjoying the journey very much.
tl;dr do u even lift bro?Read More