@Floreborn

Alright boys, here’s the short version: I used to think reading a stack of dating books would turn me into James Bond. Spoiler: it didn’t. What it did give me was a PhD in “theory” and about zero results in real life. Let’s just say I was basically the guy doing all the homework but never getting picked for the field trip.

Fast-forward a bit: after plenty of awkward dates, bad openers, and one or two “hug closes” (don’t ask), I finally started to get it. Turns out the game isn’t about memorizing 99 lines. More like becoming the guy who doesn’t even need them.

Now I’m working on all fronts: body, mind, wallet, and frame. Still mess up sometimes, but at least now the stories are funny and educational.

I’m here to swap war stories, share a laugh at the dumb stuff we all do, and maybe learn a trick or two from the veterans. If you’ve ever thought, “Damn, did I really just say that out loud?”,then we’re probably on the same wavelength.

See ya,

Flo.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

In recent weeks, Trump ordered a huge deployment of warships and submarines off the coast of Venezuela, a country that is not at war with, much less threatening the security of, mainland USA. What could possibly go wrong?

Well, what went wrong yesterday, is that US troops blew up a small vessel outside of US territorial waters, killing all aboard.

The post hoc justification is that they were smuggling drugs into the US. Even if this were the case, this does not carry the Death Penalty even after trial and conviction. This makes the action a case of straight up murder. The vessel was not big enough to supply a frat party or Zelensky conference. Whatever evidence was on onboard is now gone, leaving zero justification for this move. The boat also could not possibly have reached US waters with the fuel onboard, and some reports suggest it was bound for Trinidad.

What does Venezuela have that factions in the US want to take control of by any means? Vast reserves of oil, well suited for existing refining capacity along the Gulf Coast.

Between Ukraine, Israel, Iran, and now Venezuela, Trump may already have the US in WWIII. NOT the promises he made when campaigning!

@MidgetSpinner

Submissive girl I'm seeing suddenly poured on massive shit tests

Been seeing a girl for over a week now. We've been frequently meeting, staying over at both my place and hers. Things have mostly been very good between us - great sex, great chemistry, great intimacy and affection, great conversation etc.

I spent all day with her today (mistake) for the first time, and things were smooth sailing as usual, but then in the evening she started to become very playful and manic almost. I don't mind the playfulness, as I can be playful back, but she was becoming a bit too much in other ways, for example:

She kept calling me gay this, gay that. I was just ignoring it mostly, or teased her back. I'm no stranger to shit tests or joking around at someone's expense, but she kept doing it and doing it to the point it was getting tedious.

Another thing was that she then started implying I was some sort of a bitch saying, "she fucks me" (she doesn't) because I like it when she gets on top and rides, and then the final straw was her getting out a vibrator and rubbing it against my nipple. I put up with this for over an hour, and then decided I had enough of this attempted emasculation bullshit and left.

Before I did, I told her straight up that she was being a bit too hype and annoying and that I was leaving. She said, "well this is part of how I am, if you don't like it then go". So I did.

This girl is 1000% into me, and I do like her too - everything was cool but it was almost as though she was a completely different person last night. She went from being this sweet, affectionate and compliant girl I'd been experiencing all week, to some bipolar/hyper aggressive girl all of a sudden. It was strange, it felt like she was actively trying to push me away.

For context: I'm 37 male, she's 28 female. She has been consistently obsessed and devoted to me the entire time we've been seeing eachother. I'm not saying she lost any interest tonight, but her weird fucking behaviour put me right off.

I'm just wondering if anyone could tell me wtf this sudden behaviour is lmao. I haven't messaged her since. I didn't get angry or defensive, I just simply said "You're being a bit too much, and I'm going" and I just left.

Of course she tried to push you away. You're thirty-seven years old with one-itis for a chick you've only known for a few weeks. That's a red flag if ever there was one now matter how unstable the female herself might otherwise be. Study the book and maintain discipline.

@Mate1212

I was going to reply to this

IMO you shouldn't have a problem with her getting pregnant.

But then I saw this:

how should they track me down? If it's my kid, I'm cool with playing. It's still my kid. But in the worst case scenario, I will use 100% of my free will and disappear. Not even the state will find me.

I believe you are not being realistic. In a "dude, slap your face" manner.

Take this advice: you are not ready to have a kid, and if you do in the near future it will probably destroy your life, as well as your kid's.

The capacity and willingness to "walk away" may have a lot to do with fucking bitches, but it has nothing to do with raising kids.

Make sure you don't knock someone up as you gain experience in life. Consider having a kid on purpose only after you 're 35.