@Typo-MAGAshiv

Okay...

So apart from my situations, where I am not asking these girls for anything, they are lunging bullshit at me and my dumbass is listening to it, only to then realize their unsolicited bullshit are lies, here is another prime example:

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Long story short, my friend and I both have the same married dance partner. We both have the same skills and everything and virtually both practiced with her outside of the venue (separately) in similar fashion so my point is we're basically the same situation but he got lied to and I didn't.

Long story short, she's deploying in the military, it was her last night out, and he was very emotional. I was too because dance partner dynamics get everybody regardless of what the relationship is, especially when you have one that good.

Anyway, due to some stuff he was saying and an obvious over-attachment to her, I told my friend she fucked a guy that was not her husband. She told me she was dating the guy that wasn't husband, the guy that wasn't her husband told me he saw her. But when my friend confronted her, she denied it

I virtually have the same dynamic with her as him, but he got lied to and I got a story both her and the guy confirmed

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So my point is, even in a situation that didn't involve me. I still saw this at play. when do you even know what a woman says is true?

@Vermillion-Rx same reply as before, minus the question about why you were posting it to weapons appreciation. I made a similar mistake yesterday, lol.

#ANYWAY...

You can drive yourself crazy with this sort of shit. Trust from a man to a woman has to be earned over time. Not days or weeks, but months and years.

I signed to my wife virtually every power of attorney imaginable so she could manage our affairs while I was in Iraq. I signed them all again 2 more times.

My only complaint was that she spent too much money, and to be fair, she has the same complaint about me.

How did I get to the point that I trusted her that much?

A) when we started getting serious, and I wanted to know more about her divorce, she was able to show me that everything she had said was true.

B) she had never once flaked on me, even when we weren't serious.

C) I kind of just got lucky. I was steeped in feminist brainwashing at the time (FFS, I asked her if she wanted to hyphenate her last name with mine, and to her credit she said no), and blundered my way through several things for years based on false premises. There will come a point where it's a leap of faith, so you have to be mentally prepared for the possibility of being betrayed (and even I knew that despite being steeped in feminist brainwashing back then).

But yeah, from what I recall seeing from you recently, and correct me if I'm wrong, but:

• you've only been with club/bar girls these past several months

• you expect too much, too fast, such as monogamy from them even when you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious

I mean, you're going to a slutty party venue, so you're almost certainly going to find nothing but slutty party girls. Yeah, most women are sluts anywhere you go, but a) there are degrees of severity of sluthood (serial monogamy vs. throwing her legs apart for a new dude several times a week), and b) outside of clubs/bars, your odds of finding a decent woman go from abysmal to just really low.