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So there's these girls on school. And they all are pretty much into me, and I want to score with them, is there any way to not ruin my reputation, or is it just according to the girls mood?
Because there's a few guys I know that women don't really care, except this one guy who is pretty good looking, but managed to get hated on(just a little bit tho), but it was because he kissed women pretty much in the middle of the school. And I don't really do that, so if I manage to not appear to have relations in school and not get in any relations can I maintain my reputation? I'm pretty sociable, so it would suck to get a really bad reputation and be cancelled lol.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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So there's these girls on school. And they all are pretty much into me, and I want to score with them, is there any way to not ruin my reputation, or is it just according to the girls mood?
Because there's a few guys I know that women don't really care, except this one guy who is pretty good looking, but managed to get hated on(just a little bit tho), but it was because he kissed women pretty much in the middle of the school. And I don't really do that, so if I manage to not appear to have relations in school and not get in any relations can I maintain my reputation? I'm pretty sociable, so it would suck to get a really bad reputation and be cancelled lol.
@OPStolen I see nothing wrong with your text game at all, except that you are wasting your efforts on a woman who is clearly not interested.
I'd next her and put that effort towards new prospects.
Anything less than a "fuck yes" should be regarded as a "fuck no".
@OPStolen Funny banter on your end. For most of it I was thinking you're gunning for a MeToo experience. Then she drops the pajama line at the end and I got to thinking fondly about cuddling and grabbing ass cheeks clad in flannel.
IDK, she's not passing the "fuck yes or fuck no" filter decisively here.
A polarizing line I've found useful goes, "At this point, I already have enough friends.
Is my text game working or no? I feel like she’s inviting me to make a move on her but I also feel like she’s trying to beta orbiter me. Can I have some help so I can actually get something by the end of the night?
@Problematic_Browser direct that at some of the tards polluting the forums lately!
I doubt they'll see it here
Stop asking how to get women.
If you're asking, then you aren't attractive to them.
Their lack of interest is the feedback that is telling you that you need to do more work on yourself. Now, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying to do it to get women. I'm saying that women are attracted to men who take the time to develop the things that women want: fitness, resources, confidence, social status, etc.
If you're not getting women trying to fuck you, take it as an opportunity to focus on your self development.
No date on a Friday night? That's perfect gym time. College girls ignoring you? Great opportunity to study. No Valentine's Day girl? Invest that money you would have spent into a IRA.
Women wait at the finish line for winners and too many of you are too fucking lazy to even run the race.
Read MoreFwb didnt counteroffer to my date offer, just said she cant make it. Is this the end?
I know that this is low interest in general. But this is the very first time shes done it with me. She always counteroffers when she can. This is the first brief "No" I got from her. To be exact it was a "No I cant make it at 5pm" with no context or reschedule after. There was nothing established here.
In the past I broke up with a LTR who did this to me, and people said it was really stupid, that its not so black-and-white with more established girls.
But sometimes when i get hit with it, i just view it as it is. And if theres no counteroffer I think the worst and figure its the ghosting starting.
In my context, my fwb said she cant make it at 5pm today. Is that grounds to never ask her again? For some context she tried to meet up with me earlier this week and i had told her she confirmed a bit late and i have other plans. She even texted me later the next day. So with that in context, i dont think shes fading me out.
Any insight would be appreciated. Should no counteroffer = terminating the fwb relationship? Or is there more leeway for established girls?
For some context I did offer a reschedule again, i think i will have more clarity on the situation after she responds. If she does it again, I think i know.
If a chick wants to spend time with you, she'll make herself available to do so. If she doesn't, she won't. Unless you're looking for a woman to settle down with, if you otherwise have an actual inventory of plates, don't let yourself become overly concerned when any one females interest declines. Leave them the freedom to move on so you can replace them as they loose interest.
To that end, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read MoreHow should I proceed with an argumentative girl?
I've been talking to a girl (from an app) who's generally got a bit of a stick up her ass. I have not met her in person yet. A few days ago I suggested we get together today, which she agreed with but tried to make the plans for us. She just said "meet me at x, we can get dinner". I basically said "Dinner is a terrible idea I'm not doing that." She got butthurt about this and immediately launched into "you just want to hook up with me, what's wrong with dinner? You come up with something better then, etc". I told her I'd come up with something and I'd talk to her later. My current idea is telling her to meet me at x for drinks and some food, then splitting the bill and saying see ya later.
She goes out of her way to talk to me and seems to want my attention, but when she does, she acts like she's got a cock between her legs. I get the sense that she's trying really hard to sus out if I'm "a player", or essentially what my intentions are. I've been extremely vague in this regard and I only really communicate that I'm interested in her, and that I want to meet with her. I've never met a girl who refuses to be feminine and tries to dictate everything (or challenges everything I say) before I have even met her.
On one hand it seems like pretty blatant next, on the other hand I think maybe I could learn a lot by figuring out how to maneuver this. My desire to bed this chick is probably like a 6/10. Assuming you didn't next in this situation, how would you proceed?
edit: I shouldn't have even asked about this because it's a stupid question.
While she may like the attention she gets from you and other guys, if she's clearly communicated that she's not looking to hookup, maybe you should spend that energy on those who are. Move on and consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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