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@slutmagazine Thanks for your advice and perspective. That first paragraph makes total sense. I’m starting to grasp a little better the idea of “keeping frame” which is so easy to lose in an LTR (for me at least). It’s so easy when you’re out of an LTR or are monk mode but women have this nature to slowly and covertly try and make you submit to them, it’s a weird dance. Your last paragraph is on point too, although we might differ on men’s numbers but I can see how it definitely doesn’t hurt to keep it low and drama free. For a man I feel like numbers are much less risky and damaging then for a female. But I digress, and again I appreciate the feedback it’s given me a lot to think about and reevaluate.
Maybe I’ll reconsider this one extremely religious and Christian girl who said to me she was saving herself for marriage “for someone she felt God led her to” and I couldn’t find a blemish about..she was definitely a unicorn. She and I parted ways for a couple years (different lifestyles/jobs) but she cared more ab my soul status and important life decisions more than any woman I ever came across. I’ve thought ab a woman with those qualities for two years and no one has been close to it. Shit, guess I’m just playing myself.Read More
@natedagr8 Building frame without studying actual philosophy is like talking about building a house without wood. Don't end up having a mirage of a house, have a real house. Start by understanding the proper roles of husband and wife. If you're giving up other women and your time to be with one woman, then it doesn't matter if she's your girlfriend, fiance, or spouse. She better know how to act like a wife.
IMO she already is in the deep red by having sex with so many other partners. That's why I tell people before they get emotionally attached to find someone with a clean past. Even women I tell this to.
@slutmagazine As base and corrupt as the idea of value and wealth being a token of sexual commodity is, that idea is taken to its conclusion with the sex industry.
What is it if not a vulgar display of stagnant wealth and moral decline centred around sex?
By having money become synonymous with status and power, which women are attracted to, women become attracted to money.
No, but that's an interesting point in itself.
Class society, ours as an example, mostly holds the idea of wealth in contempt, having wealth is a moral blight. And so when a woman is attracted to the byproducts of wealth (as I don't believe a woman can hold the concepts of wealth and it's constituent parts in her mind at the same time), society holds her in contempt by the same standard, but it is only her natural instinct to be drawn towards someone who has plenty. And that's the key, money is only a measurement of your 'plenty' the same way a litre is for water.
All that is to say, it is necessary that the male valued his creation of wealth for its own sake before the value of women in order for anything to claim it had any value in the first place. The idea that the accumulation of wealth is nothing but that of a birds performative mating ritual only works to diminish man himself and the wealth and value he has created.
The argument against the sex industry practically writes itself from there.Read More
@natedagr8 What if some guy who you are thinking of being best friends with you said he killed
maybe 4-5 tops, prob less?
There's that rule. Whatever number she tells you, multiply by 2-3 times.
All women are a little nuts. Then there is CRAZY. Where do you think that craziness comes from? A dad that didn't pay too much attention because he was at work all the time?
From what you said you don't have great frame but you have some. And that should be enough to keep her from these antics. So what's left? Sounds like she has relationship history that fucked her up. That's putting it lightly.