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The amazing thing is, young men that have a shitload of experience on short-terming women have no clue what they're up for after their marriage crosses the 7, 10, 20 year mark.
That was me. Longest "relationships" I had before this one were 3 months, maybe 5.
We've been married 20 years, together 21. I really didn't know what I was in for, and if I could do everything over again, I'd have never married anyone, ever.
It's like taking your children on a cruise around the world on a rotting ship with a crazy captain. Red Pill on fucking steroids for sure.
The amazing thing is, young men that have a shitload of experience on short-terming women have no clue what they're up for after their marriage crosses the 7, 10, 20 year mark. Yeah, you get better, but she also gets worse.
The bumpy road never ends.
And even if you kludge a raft and take your chances with the ocean, your children are still left on the ship. With the crazy captain.
There are horror stories with about all my friends that are married with children. And I can hear the bomb ticking even in the ones that are currently "doing fine".
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@redpillschool I thought Elon was putting a stop to all the faggotry?
So much for that!
2.5 suffer in silence without chasing or after giving up on chasing
If you were 20. Told your gf you want kids between 25 - 28. But your not really sure because you don't know if you will have enough money and if she's really worth it. And she tells you it's a bit early 30 - 32 would be fine.
Is this a reason to break up? Did she just tell me your beta and I do like to keep the gates open. Or is it just normal because of the female timeline?
@Durek_The_Bald can't tell in print. Have some vcards.
@Typo-MAGAshiv @carnold03 @First-light
Guys, it's a joke.
The respectability of cheating Vs. chasing:
Men who cheat on their frigid spouses are generally looked upon less favourably than men who keep chasing their frigid spouses. Not only by women, by other men as well. And not least, by themselves.
Granted, the guy who keeps chasing will feel bad about himself from a "value" point of view. And other people will see it as kinda pathetic and sad. But it won't be an issue with morality, ethics, or respectability.
Meanwhile, the guy who solves his problem by cheating on his wife will think of himself as a piece of shit. Other people will tell him he's a piece of shit. And if he asked online: "Hey, my wife doesn't want to fuck me. Should I cheat on her?", the answer will pretty unanimously be: "No don't cheat, cheating is the worst".
But is cheating really "the worst"? Is it worse than to keep soliciting for sex - covertly and overtly - someone who's already made it abundantly clear she isn't interested in you in that way? More dishes, more date nights, more back rubs, more communication. It's like the guy at the pub who keeps coming up to this chick who keeps rejecting him, trying to talk to her, trying to order her drinks.
Now, we all know this doesn't work. And even people outside this space increasingly know it doesn't work. But that's not my point. My point is: Is it even acceptable behavior, compared to just cheating? Is it more respectable behavior?
I would argue not. I would argue that cheating is preferable to chasing - not just from point of view of " what works" - but from point of view of which type of behaviour is more respectable, and morally sound. If the guy who keeps taking his wife on date nights doesn't feel like a piece of shit - and nobody else is telling him he's a piece of shit - why should the guy who simply cheats be seen as piece of shit?
In order of more to less respectability and moral/ethical soundness, I'd rank the three typical solutions to married men's sexual frustrations like this:
- Leave
- Cheat
- Chase
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Social media is how team women broadcast their programming. There is no amount you can compete with the bombardment of feminine imperative programming.
