Girlfriend Criteria

When I was broken hearted, divorced, angry, confused, and otherwise befuddled with the dating world back in the day, I set out into the ether to find answers. I was lucky to be born in a time when reddit, in particular, was the old real reddit. And I stumbled upon some of you fine gentlemen.

What I could never quite sort out was some sort of method for making LT dating decisions.

First, my judgement was clouded by love, lust, oneitis, etc.

And second, I was never quite clear about my expectations. There were just too many things to consider. However, once I got past the attraction stuff, and stopped thinking about “wife material” things became clearer. I was able to see a woman for who she truly is.

I cannot say I am a world class expert at this, but I am close. At my age, I can sense a bad woman early these days. And that is in part because of the spreadsheet below. I just typed this up for your enjoyment and entertainment, but it is loosely in my head.

When I meet a new woman, I tend to lean on these things as early indicators of fit - because without them, my brain seems to not work so well.

Keep in mind the following:

• These criteria say nothing about her mental stability when stressed or angry
• I have written about intimacy a time or two here (Sexual chemistry + Trust + Respect) without this, the relationship cannot be taken seriously
• One could add a few more criteria, so do that if you wish. These are mine.
• To find a woman under 20 these days is very unlikely. So one could weight each of these differently. I may do that in the future.

If you understand Excel at a basic level, you can easily replicate this on your own.

I hope this helps at least one person here. If it does, then my job is done.

Cheers mates!

@Typo-MAGAshiv Sure I assume here that Jews are not a monolith. But even then they will get chased one by one.

EVENTUALLY all 'I don't really care about Jews' countries would become Muslim.

You'd think USA would be OK but now you have Minnesota with huge pile of money gone, imported Somalis [Muslim?], NY has Mandani. It moves slowly but it moves.

This kind of instability is a risk of nuke war. No one wins. Only people that have nothing to loose can plan it, don't care about, or go for it because whatever.

Pakistan has nukes, if the US influence will be lost there who knows what will happen.

Country that have the best chance to survive it, would be:

• the one with the best nuke shield. I can only assume it would be Israel AND USA - but only USA is far enough to defend. But then shooting everything down in the atmosphere - I guess - wouldn't make an Earth place to live anyway.

• country that can disable all nukes before they are deployed - that would require either spies, or hacking enough locations

I'm not convinced by simply saying: Jews are not a monolith.

By the way.

How can you justify that the Jews are behind everything 'illegal aliens'? When nuclear arsenal in UK / France... USA will be run by Muslims... or even if Israel will be devoid of help from West because of unrests. What do you think is going to happen next in this little corner for medieval Crusades destination.

I don't really think that the countries that have the nukes are interested in "destabilization by muslims "happening. Stable Europe guarantees threat status quo. Everyone likes it. US bombs Iran, Irak, Russian oligarchs take it away from Ukraine and sells fossil fuels...

There is [logically] few interested parties.

China / Russia if their arsenal is fake and they can't see getting it right - unlikely.

Muslims - they would have to organize it well and undercover.... Saudis?

Like with feminism - it is a product of accidents - inertia - supported by sociopaths, because they can't see ahead - don't care anyway.

If this is Israel they might be miscalculating the outcomes it will have.