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how do I find out what's best for me? When I do it a lot I'm just "normal". When I do nofap, I'm kind of more energised but super thirsty and down for everything with 2 legs
www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtwiAkUj5Go
The idea behind Nofap is that chronic masturbation is a problem, because it's a form of addiction. That instead of consuming some drug that provokes a chemical reaction in your body that affects your mind, you masturbate to reach that end. You strike me as a young man who's doing nofap not because you see your masturbation habit as a serious problem you need to get under control, but because it's a way to fit in with other guys who get their information mainly from the internet. Thing is, the best way to find out what's best for you, is to actually do new or different things than you're doing now.
To change things up, before you do your next nofap challenge, set goals for yourself to accomplish. Take a few minutes to sit down with a few sheets of paper, a pen, and focus on firmly figuring out what interests, drives, and motivates you. On the first sheet write down a list of things that you've been putting off on the back burner due to work, schooling, or just life in general. It doesn't matter how silly, or stupid the task or idea might be, just write it down. When you're done, take the second sheet of paper, and re-write the items from the first list starting with what you believe to be the simplest, easiest task, to the most complicated.
When you're done with the second list, study the book, and get to work. The challenge once you've got the list done won't be simply accomplishing them, but not allowing yourself to be de-spirited whenever you encounter difficulty, or failure. Basically, to not let yourself be defeated. You'll spend the time to troubleshoot and diagnose the problem, then start over. In order to understand what the red pill's really about, you're going to have to do more than skim the surface and cherry pick the ideas that appeal to you. You're going to have to push past the hedonist gatekeepers to fully understand 'the bigger Red Pill picture, that it's not just about women.'
If you need help, ask. There's no shortage of #books we can recommend that may help you achieve your goals. Best of luck to you.
Read More@First-light She's from Iran.
if not what happens away from sight stays away from sight
Think you're right there. When people aren't watching, she gets hot and heavy. Around others, she's much more reserved and shuts down any escalation.
@Mate1212 I had to look gooning up. Sounds like the worst solution I can think of. Masturbate to relive yourself and get on with life. Don't de-sensitise yourself to arousing images by watching so much you become a zombie and then never actually shoot your load. This does harm for no benefit. Crack one off and you are good. Get the job done swiftly and get on with your day.
@Bozza Yeah but there are so many different kinds of conservative cultures that its hard to be sure what's the solution in your case. Find out a bit about her culture, invest a bit more time in her. What does plausible deniability took like in her culture? In some cases its no more that does anyone important in her life see you with her? if not what happens away from sight stays away from sight. In some cases you will have to spend money on her for her not to be an easy slag. Just because its conservative does not always mean its conservative in our way of thinking.
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@redpillschool who are examples of people that started here as EC and vanguards, but are currently making purple pill content? (Asking in a sincere info seeking, not snarky/gotcha spirit)
Any of you guys dealt with women from non-western conservative countries?
Because I've got a girl - HB9, absolutely stunning. Very clearly interested. But she's completely throwing my game off. And I can only put that down to cultural difference.
Anyone with experience navigating these women?
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