@Typo-MAGAshiv What I really liked about this video was the total absence of sarcasm, derision or frustration in the guy's voice. Granted he is not talking about his own relationship, so it was easy to act but one thing I have learned over the years is that the red pill rage is both our biggest driver in seeking fairness and our biggest enemy in being understood -probably both in our own relationships and in the wider world.

Society sees a man in an emotional state not only as failing but also, if that emotion is negative towards a woman -simply as a bad man. This means that just about anything he has to say is to be disregarded.

You can have feminists screaming at the camera, and seething with bitter sarcasm, putting men down for their faults and its all "You go gurl, you strong amazing woman standing up for yourself" A man says something upset or worse bitter and he has wronged the woman just by speaking like that.

Society needs to change to allow men to express emotion (Yes feminists maybe you will get your wish that men could cry without shame and the world will be healed, but it won't go how you expect it to). However in the meantime creating content like this is actually very good as its very hard to actually cancel over the delivery of the message.

I think our greatest problem is getting cancelled for the temerity of trying to deliver the message with feeling, irony, sarcasm or mockery. This gets called "misogyny" (not emotional reaction to misandry) and the messenger is cancelled.

@redpillschool seeing that video of her, at first I was thinking that she might have a point, but as the video went on something felt more and more off about her yapping.

where I feel that the husband fucked up is when he fit right in the stereotype of the incompetent husband: "you ask me what to do every day [at dinner]" / "you ask me what they need in their backpacks". I could imagine her seeing him asking this with a dumb face/voice, instead of "let's eat pasta this week", or "oh I forgot to put [item] in the backpack? let's see how the kid will handle that and what can we teach him about that". imo that would be a way better way to deal with these things. In the long run what's the big deal if the kid has a minor inconvenience at school? I think that these.. items could be easily avoided.

even though I like cooking, I loathe the time I waste doing it, so I mainly batch cook, around 7kgs of chicken breast with roughly the same amount of vegetable puree, which then I portion and throw in the freezer. my wife often gives me shit about it, but I am absolutely certain that deep down she respects the fact that if push comes to shove and she doesn't/can't cook at some point, I can easily revert to my default meal without skipping a beat. If she tries to make me cook and I don't feel like it I'm offering her my menu and she can take it or leave it. If I'm in the mood to cook then it's not an issue for me.

with regards to the household chores, a thing that I notice is rarely touched upon is the individual TOLERANCE THRESHOLD to certain aspects. in almost every LTR/marriages I see, the female has a much lower one to, let's say, dust gathering up. I can live just fine if most areas in my house are dusty, and when I have periods when I'm particularly focused on my life goals, I totally neglect my house and it becomes a mess. I am so in the zone that I don't see myself doing it. It might not look nice, but most of the time I don't give a fuck. But if I do jack shit and my wife does all the housework, in this case I do tend to feel more as the boy taken care of and that's not good in the long run.

When my tolerance threshold is passed, then I do the cleaning or whatever is needed. In these situations I do not accept being bitched at; I've kindly told my wife my tolerance theory and told her that she can gladly fuck off and do [chore] if it bothers her that much, I can live with that. On the flip side I have a very low tolerance for crumbs gathering in a certain part of the floor in the kitchen, so I'm brooming that part several times a day. We also have a DIY sliding door that keeps on derailing, and she does not seem to mind that, but there I step in because I can't tolerate that. On the (neutral?) side, for some reason I absolutely love loading/unloading the dishwasher, and my wife risks being bitched at if I'm not doing that. So, different individual thresholds for different chores.

This being said I'm not meaning this as a contradiction to your article. I explained my tolerance theory, with the "telling her to fuck off" part to a lot of blue pilled buddies and so far they did not become OuTRAgEd; they mostly agreed. So it's more of a corollary maybe?

@Typo-MAGAshiv good video. JP Sears is a motherfucker, thanks for bringing him up on my radar again. a comment there says: " She was complaining about the dishes being clean. " hahaha