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@carnold03 I agree, had the same thoughts on it. Just went the "That's fair" and got a swift "maybe there are some fast trains' text back (there's not)
Matched with girl. Setup date plan and got her number within 5 texts. On text I try to schedule to meet in my city - she lives 3+ hrs away. She seems really interested and said before that she wants to go and would wanna come here even, I said "I think you should" She replies "hahaha it's just a long trip, and I'm not sure how I can get there and also get back in such a short time" which I totally think is totally valid it being 6+hrs
I'm thinking with abt just replying "That's fair" and see what happens. I thought abt offering to let her sleep at my place, as its the only solution and ideal scenario anyway. but not sure abt that in case we don't vibe on date, and if I'd do that I think wanna call her not text it?
What do u think is the best way to seal this?
Tell her "that's fair" and leave it at that. Your idea to invite her to crash at your place will let her know how interested you are and this early in the game, that tends to kill a chicks interest fast. Besides, most hookup apps I've been shown give users general locations for the other party in relation to their own. She knew it would be three hours one way to your city and still chose to waste your time thinking she was going to meet you.
Do yourself a favor and study the book I suggested to you three years ago. It'll help you to better filter out the females only out to waste a guys time. Try to mix things up with more actual face-to-face conversations with females, even if it's just the cashier at the store.
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If you're rich and have a good dick, they'll put up with anything.
But then again, it is a case by case basis.
The bottom line is that long-term polygamy is heavily dependent on icome and status.
I suggest you pick up your passport and do a bit of travelling (no, an all-inclusive in Cancun is not travelling). You'll discover that people think very differently from what you're used to.
I didn't know adding very obviously quote marks to certain words in commentary were blue pill
Also, a woman who respects herself will not long term put up with a harem, at least in the West
Too many cultural forces at play
I'm not sure how that's blue pill dude it is what it is and to pretend otherwise is delusional
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"You can have a "great woman" or a harem, not both"
That's surprisingly blue pill coming from you
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In some parts of the world, you marry the side chick. It's called polygamy.
Male monogamy is bullshit
Well, there's always not telling, or even straight up lying. Communication is optional, and it's only unacceptable if you get caught. Women are more likely to accept an "I sort of know, but don't want to know for sure" situation.
Anyways, as an adult man responsible for other people's feelings, you sometimes have to lie. You don't tell your kids Santa isn't real, and you don't tell your wife a blowjob was received backstage.
Great post. We need way more research on this but the feminism tainted culture would never fund it. We just have thousands of misled women wondering why they are depressed. Personally I'm very curious what bonds women most in sexual acts? Is it their orgasm, getting ejaculated in, or just penetration? Do condoms have an impact? While I would prefer everyone to be virgins before marriage, a better compromise with the depraved culture could be obtained if we know what are the riskiest behaviors.
Reads like you might actually be serious about going down the rabbit hole. Not to worry though, we've got you covered.
The unfortunate fact is that 10, 15 or 20 years down the road you will only be fucking with your wifey once or twice a month. Either she won't put out more, or you won't.
Toleratingyhe husband having a mistress, or the occasional prostitute, was actually a normal that supported a long-lasting marriage. The older narratives sometimes even encouraged wives to take advantage of the renewed sex drive of the husband (that the mistress provided), in order to have more fun with the hubby herself.
Men are parallel polygamists, so this could work: you didn't necessarily need to leave your wife for the mistress, and in most cases you actually didn't.
Women, though... They are serial polygamists. The lover extinguishes the husband (even if she will regret it dearly later).
The idea that is it unacceptable for a married man to have a mistress is a very recent, and a very American one.
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