@kardon93

30+ attractive guys, that have no problem getting women, whats your approach to dating?

Hey guys looking for help in how you do it, I mean, being attractive at this age and with experience whats your usual goal in dating? Im a 32 year old recent surgeon graduate and came back to my city.

I have always been handsome and had decent girls, but now that im also making a lot of money and got a high status jobs, women are jumping and IDK how to manage dating. Before I used to date monogamously in LTR, cute, submissive family oriented women, thats was fine, but realized that marriage is not for me, atleast not now dunno if later, and stopped doing it because i was "wasting" this good material girls time. Plus I moved cities so it was impossible to continue a relationship by distance.

• Do you guys are still looking for "the one" unicorn to marry, and avoid spinning plate meanwhile ? (Cute, young, submissive, and family oriented)
• Do you guys just spin plates? carelessly? Forever or until you wanna settle?
• Do you date and just have an honest talk with women saying you dont wanna be monogamous?

I dont know what to do, I get a lot of cute girls hitting on me, but I know most of them will inevitable end with the marriage talk, which is also tiresome to deal with. So thats why Im asking for your advice. What works best for you?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@HighBodyCountVirgin

Do you believe the newer generations will be post-TRP?

The whole premise of TRP is to wake people up to the reality of the world. With how popular social media is with the newer gens, and how popular TRP/manosphere content especially is becoming on these platforms, do you think the newer gens will be the first ones in a while to grow up with a default redpill lens, and not need to undo brainwashing and indoctrination from mainstream bluepill narratives?

The youth rarely watch TV, they don't even watch much netflix/amazon prime anymore, they watch streamers and other online content creators, a lot of whom are relatively more redpilled than whatever slop is pushed by hollywood.

The future is won by those who show up. Unless you've committed yourself to producing and raising the next generation, your question is irrelevant.

@Vermillion-Rx

I never thought about it until @Durek_The_Bald said the engagement is another honey moon phase

What I said was, the first 6 months of living together (engaged or not) is like another (or an extended) honeymoon phase. It's new, and fresh, and everyone's on their best behaviour. Not enough time for bad habits to really start getting annoying. Not enough time to really know how you both deal with conflicts of interests etc.

Forget engagement. Engagement is a silly thing - just a reason to have more attention and another ring.

My point is, if you're the kind of guy who's open to marriage, then living together for an extended period of time (18-24 months) is part of the vetting process (of both her and yourself).

If you follow Rollo's advice on this, then you're (1) already "planning to marry" or "getting engaged to" to someone you haven't really vetted properly, and (2) once you do live together, it won't be for long enough. Also, (3), it sort of builds up marriage to be some sort of end goal for the dude, rather than taking a chill pill, and see where things go over a long time.