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Goingthedistance
a few seconds ago The Public Square
@Lone_Ranger I appreciate the comment, truly. But I have some questions.
also point to a sort of ambition to be a chad that can smash chicks within 2 hours of meeting them.
Yes, isn't that what good looking guys that are also social calibrated do?
I'd ditch that as an ambition. Because its not going to make you happy.
This sounds like saying "it's lonely at the top", but what if you're already lonely at the bottom? I think for me at least, it's not the capability of sleeping with a girl the same day I meet her, as much as being able to do so. Instead of being some loser that visited some Pro's to get better at smashing.
Just keep living and improving yourself, you're going in the right direction. The chicks will come.
While I really appreciate this, I don't have that much optimism. I'm already 28 and while I do look like I'm 21 and I'm certainly fit and getting fitter each day, I feel (a woman thing I know) that I've missed a lot of stuff and that I'm at a massive disadvantage to most guys that started getting laid at 15 and kept getting laid.
The chicks will come.
And yes, they will come, but they'll come because I've finally ascended to chad status and being a desirable man? Or because I'm a prime candidate for a beta bux?
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a few seconds ago The Public Square
@lurkerhasarisen good thing I studied being awesome.
destraht Garage Chief
5 minutes ago The Public Square
@Antelope So if I'm here for Covid Round 2 fakeness then everything pretty much stays exactly the same for me. I'll do construction, maybe have to wear a symbolic mask here and there, but it will be basically completely free. I'll have gatherings of a few people or even ten and life is normal. The main difference would be that I'll have trouble eating my favorite real cheesecake over in Chisinau because they're Western gay and will likely require fake Covid vaccination card gangster scams that I don't want to participate in.
But in America it's just a beat down psyche-busting horror show, minefield subjects, extreme alienation and basically being on house arrest hoping that it doesn't literally all implode on my bad luck time.
Goingthedistance
9 minutes ago The Public Square
@Lone_Ranger I think that what can happen with self improvement is that you get the constant feeling that you are not good enough. Not good enough for women, for fiends, for X Y Z things. And you are basically living in a loop of self doubt no matter the progress you've made. The problem here is how to get out of the loop and learn to appreciate the process and the small wins along the way.
lurkerhasarisen
11 minutes ago The Public Square
One of the things that jumped out at me from the article is that a lot of people who go into psychology are wrestling with their own demons.
Procrastinators study the psychology of Procrastination. Sexual deviants study the psychology of sexual devianc
... and liars like Ariely study the psychology of lying.
destraht Garage Chief
12 minutes ago The Public Square
@Antelope America is going to be GAY AS FUCK in 2024. Being stuck there just rotting during Covid anti-election and away from my woman and livable property is just gay as fuck.
Everyone meaningful across all subjects is predicting America to be a total shit show in 2024.
lurkerhasarisen
14 minutes ago The Public Square
Nobody is saying that there aren't a lot of women slutting it up. I'm certainly not denying it. But if the sample set is heavily skewed toward, "Bar sluts," the average is going to be artificially high.
My beef is with the notion that any woman who's not married by her late 20s may be presumed to be an n=60 hoe. By declaring that the particular woman under consideration has a probable n-count of at least 60 simply because she's almost 30 and single, the "all 30 year old spinsters are turbosluts" assumption is unmistakable.
That assumption, when appied to an anonymous individual woman, is simply not justified. It is especially unlikely to be true for a woman who's losing out with men because she's not willing to sleep around.
destraht Garage Chief
15 minutes ago The Public Square
@Antelope I don't know. I just found out. Also what is really extra gay is needing to figure out if I should stash my wife in Colombia during this time or to leave her here. That doubles up costs and complicates matters greatly. They're starting up Covid bullshit, and being separated like that across oceans is stupid-as-fuck.
