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@assassin Yeah, I totally agree with you.
I'm not saying women contradict your goal or mission.
I am more pointing to when women ARE a man's goal.
I don't just mean it in a 'red pill' perspective.
We all know men, and there are plenty in Red Pill too, who really believe that the ultimate success in life, and number one goal is to have a woman.
Not just 'blue pill' guys. I'm talking in a more real and close to life perspective.
Many guys, if they searched themselves, would say that getting an attractive wife, winning her over, being a great provider and winning her approval is at the top of his list. That it's a sign of success and having 'won' as a man.
I know Red Pill talks about this sort of stuff, but I had a deeper realization today, outside of 'Red Pill' thinking.
I realized that everything about my growth, learning, challenges, aspirations is centred solely on doing what I love to the absolute best of my ability. Like, beyond that. To be an example of such high level of intellectual understanding and mastery in execution.
It was a huge realisation and I had a thought like 'this is all the dedication, energy, commitment many many men put towards making themselves the perfect guy for women'.
A guy has to really set his standards high and envision himself being amazing at something. He needs to consciously decide if he believes he's good enough to put everything into becoming it.Read More
All my life I try to use women to help me to my journey to power.
In fact a couple of years ago I tried to invest to own a brothel as a side hustle.
Then I learned that there was a law in my country that it didn't allow a businessman to own a brothel because they wanted to protect women.
The only way was to take a permit as a sexual worker myself and then I could have other sexual workers use my brothel.
It was hilarious!! And I stopped from the investment.
@LastRevision 100%. But it's going deeper into what that actually involves.
Guys throw it around without really knowing what they mean, and only in the context that 'a mission will increase your smv' line of thinking.
When we become truly real about life a man needs to really take that shit seriously and understand what it really entails.
I had it once when I was younger, and finally again at 38. That draw and total focus on something you know you were born to do and have such a huge focus on mastering.
That real, true thing that you can look 10 to 20 years in the future and know 'I am going to be out of the world fucking amazing at this'.
I imagine it's how an athlete feels when they stay in the gym after every practice. It's not because they want to be great, but they know they are, so putting everything into completely mastering it.
I am actually not sure if every guy is capable of it. Abraham Maslow said a very small amount of men will self actualize because it takes rare traits like 'independence, the strength of will, high confidence, self-reliance, risk'.
The more I have gotten away from red-pill and reconnected to my real pursuits in the last few months it's put everything in perspective for me.Read More