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@deeplydisturbed That is pretty much exactly my view on her too.
I probably couldn't stand a single evening in her company even if I didn't have to spend any money but I think my poor friend would probably catch oneitis from a similar dose.
Having the luxury of choice as to one's response to attractive women is one of the few good things about getting older. I do sometimes wonder whether its life experience or homones or both. Presumably older guys who go on TRT actually find out how big the hormone component is.
@Bozza IMO you might be getting to confrontational (especially) over the phone.
Any sort of confrontation should be done face to face.
She is brave maybe sitting with some frenemies and shooting stupid shit on loudspeaker.
Sure you might be caught by surprise but then you can go back anyway.
'Hey again who's calling?!'
'Ah its youuuuu. What sex ,last time Ive seen you you have been playing with a doll'
Pregnancy joke. That is too much. But dumping her on the spot, maybe not.
find out what (who) was behind. Where she was with who. Info for your benefit. Next time you will have anecdote you should be freely sharing with next chick.
'In had this friend and she joked about being preggy, coz Karen thought its funny and she convinced her to do it. Well it wasn't funny, and Karen new she will be in trouble, and she was coz she is not my friend anymore. Karen ofc didn't mention to her she belongs to HPV Obese FEMINISTS anonymous and want her to be alone' .
What more. You don't need any conformation on her part - you can make this stories up on the spot, because they are real anyway and serve as teaching anecdotes to women.
Didn't someone tell you few weeks back" if you are loosing shit too often too early " you need a break?
Read MoreI will say this with 100% conviction and full candor and honesty.
If i met this one IRL and by some stroke of karmic voodoo, she invited me back to her hotel, I would NOT take the bait.
In all fairness….
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I am an older man who has had a number of beautiful women in my life, so I am picky. Even at my age. I am spoiled and that’s not a flex - it’s an issue for me.
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My hormones are not what they used to me. So it’s easier to calm my libido.
- Experience has taught me that there would be “work” involved - chitty chatting, saying the right words. For a woman like this, I want about 7 minutes of her shutting the fuck up except for any noises she might make.
Still. She looks pretty.
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Agreed. Sluttiy heroin chic Avril Levine.
Let me add - it wasn't - of ive got a yeast infection lets not have sex for a week or two.
It was "Why can't we date without sex"
- unti when
"I dont know"
yeah... nah
Had a girl from Nigeria. Super hot. She was very traditional.
Things went well to start, hot sex etc. Good fun.
Then started to ply the "traditional" stuff. Nah. She didn't' push.
Week after she rings me "Im pregnant" - WHAT!? "Im Joking" Ha - fuck off.
Week after she has an infection - accuses me of STI - turns out it's a yeast infection.
Jokes about we shouldnt have sex anymore - sure you can not have sex, im doing my thing - she relents.
Friday night I'm with my plate, she calls. Ignore.
Next night - "WHY YOUN IGNORING MY CALLS"
Next night, calls again. Hypochondriac. Yeast infection is a crisis.
You've got medication, settle down.
"I dont fell comfortable having sex anymore, is that okay?"
No.
"But if you love someone"
Let me cut you off right there - i wasnt born yesterday.
NO.
No sex = goodbye. What si it?
Goodbye? Goodbye it is.
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1t7yAh1kSA
I will just leave it here, maybe someone will share some opinions.
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@deeplydisturbed This "band" was drawn to my attention by my 50 something bachelor friend. He has always had a thing for attractive posh girls who love themselves. In fact that little quirk of his is why he is still single, having "waited for the one" while casually banging the many and then always been been used and dumped by the posh pretty and self loving girl he goes all in for once a decade or so.
I just thought "Gosh even if you were Marcus from Chelsea with an Aston Martin, she would be too much metal maintenance" Strangely, however, when he showed it to my daughters, they thought it was cool too. So what would I know.
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