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I recently had someone (an old “friend”) threaten to kill me, It started because he insulted me for not talking to him and I called him a piece of shit. He’s a thug and an idiot.
When he first threatened me I was ready to fight him to death. I didn’t want to kill him though I wanted to torture him. Make him suffer.
But this is ABSOLUTELY CAVEMAN STUPID behavior.
So After I thought about the long term consequences I appeased his ego said “Damn Im not a friend you want man sorry I’m just such a terrible friend”
Best thing you can do is hurl that person out of your life and focus on enjoying your own shit. The best revenge is success. Be happy.
And no not narcissistic happy, I mean genuinely happy. When you smile for just being alive.
I didn't have any other plates at the time...
Then she wasn't a plate.
...which is why I handled it badly.
At least you understand that.
I guess you could probably call it oneitis
That's exactly what this is.
The best revenge is a life well-lived. Go live your life and forget about her.
Alternatively, you could hand-pick and arrange a bouquet of wildflowers, and compose and hand-write a love sonnet to include on a card with the flowers, bring them to her, hand them over and throw yourself at her feet as you weep bitter tears of loneliness and sorrow, begging her to take you back.
If you do this, post the video.