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@Redpillray Depends what you mean by "hypergamy" and "high status". The red pill understanding of hypergamy is broader than the sociological understanding of it, in that it also takes physical attractiveness and game into account (not just income, social status, social strata etc.)
Basically, if a guy is hot it's an ego boost, and there will be tingles. He can well be a mechanic, or a pool boy for that matter. As long as he's hot and got game, they'll feel it. Besides, being hot is status in and of itself anyways.
If you think a lawyers girl won't cheat on him with a mechanic, then no. That would be the sociological understanding of hypergamy - which obviously is lacking, to put it mildly.
You're trying to tame the wind (i.e. women's emotions).
It's foolish. Attempting to micromanage every emotion and every interaction your women has is how you gradually become and obsessive weirdo.
Let the bird breath. If it likes you, it'll chirp for you. If not, other birdies will.
Is this just hypergamy?
Was talking to my friend recently, who let’s say is quite good with women.
I told him a girl I was seeing went to get her car repaired and the guy handling it was trying to impress her. I wasn’t there myself, but she mentioned it to me, as a shit test of course, but mentioned it nonetheless.
He returned with, “yeah, she probably gave him reason to.” (IOIs maybe, not sure.)
And then said that all women will do this, irrespective of your status. You could be Brad Pitt and your women will still respond to “ just feeling good in the moment” — much like a child would. Since they’re emotional, not logical operators.
Fair enough.
If all women are just flirting addicts/respond to “feeling good in the moment” even when they’re with a high status guy, I know it’s not a reflection on me, and it’s just basic hypergamy.
I’m aware the nuance here would be that the higher status you are the less likely it is that someone else can make your girl feel good/occupy her mind that is preoccupied with you.
But regardless, I’d like to know would they be as likely to do this with a high-status guy? Like if she’s buying groceries, someone just makes her feel good so she responds?
Don’t know if I’ve articulated this well enough, but can someone clarify?
Read MoreWhat’s a way to ask a gal if she’s seeing other dudes or where her mindset is?
Seeing like 4 girls but I’m tired of the cycle and one is relationship worthy - wanna ask her what she’s sees with us but don’t wanna seem needy or in her frame
Has she at all asked about relationship potential with you yet?
Shower Thought:
I recently received 304 vCards from someone (a they/zir pronouns TYPOf person cough cough) and I thought to myself "How immature and childish is this place?"
Then I thought:
A. I'm here too, so I guess that makes ME immature and childish B. I have done and said much worse, and C. This is exactly the reason I keep coming back here day after day
That is all.
Carry on.
Do you ever post in the forum or is the hub side just a more comfortable format?
Just curious
Why men are shaving off their eyelashes
Why are people calling me out on here so much lately? I feel very attacked by all these examples
