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It doesn't matter
Your attitude is shit no matter where you post
You give up before you e started every time.
Start trying to close with women. Stop fearing rejection like a fag
You value your fragile ego more than growth.
I'm not helping you any more.
Same shit new post. Every time.
@Vermillion-Rx I want to succeed dude this was more so a vent post mixed with a field report. Notice how I didn’t post it in the main forum
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If you can't approach or escalate sober you are a pussy
Who cares if a woman rejects you.
There are metric fuckton of women around, and a lot of them will like you
The guys slaying the most actually get rejected the most. Wtf is wrong with your mentality.
Jesus Christ dude. Stop time trolling people on here. Rejection is life and it's amazing to filter out uninterested women instead of wondering if they would have said yes
You're mentality is sheer utter dog shit and a waste of everyone's time
This is the absolute dumbest negative self talk horseshit I've seen in a long time
1) No woman wants to be that physically close to a man she is not interested in and won't get on a dangerous ride "for free" if it's not worth the dick.
2) the only way to find out if a woman is genuinely interested and not some other motive is to escalate
You're an arrogant imbecile who has absolutely no desire to succeed. You're an askhole that very clearly just wants to whine and bitch about his own self hatred instead of try to succeed.
You're too self loathing and rejection obsessed to ever help again. I'm not helping you anymore.
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@Vermillion-Rx well no getting more drunk would lower my inhibitions further I'm sure
@adam-l I think its more so the second one. I'm not that scared of rejection as I've cold approached and asked girls out before and didn't feel much of anything when they rejected me. I feel like I just don't know how to progress the interaction .
Your case sounds a bit complicated, but I'll share a thought - if I may.
When I was in middle school, I had my first real crush on a girl. We had these things back in the day called "Dances" where you would go to - well - dance.
I was shitting myself trying to get the courage up to go and ask her to dance. This less attractive girl was standing next to her in her friend group. My friends goaded me into giving it a shot.
So I walked across that dance floor, walked up to her and calmly asked "would you dance with me"?
She giggled and said "No way!"
It hit hard.
THE ONLY THING I could think to do was ask the girl next to her. HUGE fucking mistake!
The girl said yes.
We danced, then talked, then danced again.
Most boys didn't even ask a girl. Most girls just stood there most looking at the same two "cute" boys.
One could do a deep dive RP analysis into this one. I can't even make heads or tails of it to this day. According to pre-selection, the second girl should have declined. But from an attraction perspective, since she liked me, maybe her empathy kicked in - she felt bad for me, but perhaps respected me for trying - even though she was technically my second choice!
Women logic is weird sometimes.
But it makes perfect sense. She liked me and I asked her so she said yes. She might have been waiting for the for a while and all the rest meant nothing to her. Who knows.
Here's the Bottom Line
I didn't give up. I went right back in for the kill with a confidence I didn't even know I had. My attitude (in retrospect) was "Ok. Fuck you. Then I'll ask this girl"
Not cool
Not alpha
Not awesome
Not really even balls.
Just raw stubbornness and a desire to not give up - maybe?
Whatever it was, I learned a few lessons. And they call relate back to the sidebar material. I will leave it to you to decide.
But if you keep talking to women, keep asking them out, dig into that barrel full of no - sooner or later you're going to get a YES.
Now get busy!
Read MoreYou have two problems.
First, you are terrified of rejection. That's ok. We all are.
Second, you don't have a blueprint of how flirting works.
Read up a bit. I would still suggest RooshV's Day Bang. This will give you an idea of the stages this thing goes through.
Then it's just a matter of getting yourself out there, on places where you can afford getting rejected. Let go of control, try to have fun playing the game, fuck or get rejected and find out why when you get home. Rinse and repeat.
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@Vermillion-Rx I mean sure when you put it like that but idk man she could’ve just been using for a free ride. I didn’t ask cause I felt like she was gonna ghost me anyways if I got her number and texted her later since I didn’t feel like there was as much interest from her